Welcome to Step 6 of NA in the 12-step program. Step 6 involves becoming entirely ready to have our higher power remove all these defects of character. This step is about acknowledging and accepting the flaws and behaviors that have fueled our addiction. It focuses on readiness, willingness, and commitment to change.
Step 6 is not about perfection but about developing an openness to growth and transformation. By identifying our character defects and being ready to let them go, we create the foundation for long-term recovery and personal development. This step encourages humility and self-compassion, acknowledging that change is a process that requires both effort and grace.
Step 6 requires self-reflection and a willingness to confront areas of our character that no longer serve us. Here’s how to approach this step:
Revisit your Step 4 moral inventory to identify patterns, habits, and traits that have contributed to your addiction and its consequences.
Reflect on your willingness to release these defects. Are you ready to embrace change, even if it’s uncomfortable?
Share your insights with your sponsor or recovery group. Their support can strengthen your commitment to this step.
Understand that readiness to change does not mean immediate change. Be patient with yourself as you work through this step.
Lisa identified a recurring pattern of dishonesty in her relationships. In Step 6, she acknowledged her readiness to let go of this behavior and replace it with transparency and trust.
Marcus struggled with arrogance and control issues. By admitting his need for change, he found humility and became more open to feedback from others.
After years of holding grudges, Sarah realized that her resentment was a significant defect of character. She committed to working on forgiveness and releasing these feelings.
What fears or doubts do you have about letting these defects go?
Acknowledge any resistance to change and explore its roots.
What would life look like without these defects?
Visualize how releasing these traits could improve your relationships, recovery, and overall well-being.
How can you prepare yourself for this change?
Discuss strategies for staying committed to this step, such as affirmations, journaling, or meditation.
It involves being entirely ready to let go of the traits and behaviors that hinder personal growth and recovery.
It prepares individuals for the deep changes necessary for sustained recovery by fostering a mindset of willingness and openness.
Readiness is a process, not an instant decision. Start by acknowledging your resistance and discussing it with your sponsor.
Use your Step 4 inventory as a guide and seek feedback from trusted individuals in your recovery circle.
Recovery is about progress, not perfection. The goal is to work on minimizing these traits and replacing them with healthier behaviors.
Step 6 is a critical point in the recovery journey, as it requires a deep commitment to personal growth and change. By becoming entirely ready to let go of character defects, members pave the way for a more fulfilling and honest life. This step encourages humility, patience, and trust in the process. Whether through reflection, discussion, or prayer, embracing Step 6 helps individuals take another transformative step toward lasting recovery.